You have probably heard about the phrase,” We’ve lost our spark”, “the connection is just not there anymore” and a few more along those lines. Well, as reassuring as it is to know that you are not alone, you probably want more. You need the assurance that you will not lose him. You have to know that he is with you for the long run. As a woman, it is easy to be vocal about feelings, emotions, and how a certain situation affects you. However, societal pressure has made it impossible for men to communicate openly about things they feel.
Sometimes, you just need to know how exactly to make the men want you. You are no mind reader, so how will you get them to understand that? Communication is an option, but how often does that work?
Try never and you would be the closest to the answer. So how then do you ensure your partner stays with you? Or if you have broken up and still want your ex, how do you make sure that they come back to you? The easiest way is not by seeming desperate and begging, but by using this program. Before we get into what is in the program, let’s look at a few terms and the meanings that you need to understand.
What is Primal Drive?
A man’s primal drive is to provide, to be strong, be a strong sexual being, to be emotional, whether that be in emotion, or centering that channel of energy into a passion of yours and be the best man they can be.
However, there is more to their primal drive than that. Being sexual is a huge part of a man’s primal drive, but there is also the need to be more than that. Men, themselves are usually unaware of what this drive of theirs is, but in the program, you will find out more. Most importantly, however, you will also find out how to tap into their desire to make them susceptible to what you want.
The primal desire of men is to make them want you as much as you want them. A man agonizes over his primal drive more than his sexual drive, and there is a reason. The secret to which lies in this program. His Secret Obsession has all the secrets to tapping into a man’s primal desire and drive and make them completely yours and obsessed with you with a passion.
What is the Hero Instinct?
The Hero Instinct is one of the biggest secrets to becoming a man’s deepest passion, obsession, and priority in his life. Regardless of how much he loves you or is obsessed with the idea of you if you cannot bring out the Hero Instinct in him, he will always feel like something crucial to him is missing. This then forces him to go looking elsewhere to find it. Ultimately, leading to him either cheating on you or breaking up with you, or just permanently leave you from his life.
But when you do find the key to triggering his Hero instinct, then he will be completely and truly yours and yours only. Moreover, he will put in more effort to be with you and make you feel even special. He will feel the need to make you feel more special and loved just like how you make him feel.
This is because the Hero Instinct is a biological drive similar to hunger, thirst, or sex, but just 10 times stronger and more intense. It makes it virtually impossible for him to ignore. Men need to feel like they are important and their presence is needed.
Like they are constantly saving the day or rescuing a damsel in distress. If not, they might feel a little less masculine or just undervalued. This is why you triggering their hero instinct will make them feel important and ultimately save your relationship.
So how do you trigger this hero instinct? Follow along to find out.
The Goal Of The Program
Curated and created by James Bauer, a dating and relationship coach, who is also the author of the worldwide bestselling course “His Secret Obsession” and “What Men Secretly Want”. His 12 years of experience as a dating and relationship coach has helped hundreds and thousands of women across the world to improve their relationships and strengthen their marriages. According to James, he believes that being irresistible is about a special set of qualities that stem from the feelings of happiness, true confidence, and a kind of inner beauty that pulls at a man’s heartstrings. Women are known to be irresistible and that is exactly how you tap into a man’s secret and innermost desires.
Now that you are aware of what the program targets, you are probably wondering how they achieve this? Or how you can implement this in your life with your relationships or lack thereof. Well, the program mainly targets the primal drives and desires as well as triggering the hero Instinct. James believes that, just by targeting these two, a man will automatically become obsessed with you. With as few as 12 words, you can completely transform your relationship for the better.
You might be wondering how just a few sets of signals will easily change a man’s mind? Well, James has experience and expertise in dealing with relationships. Over the years as a dating and relationship expert, he noticed patterns and repetitions of the same thing that influence and change what every male thinks. He noted these down and voila! created His Secret Obsession came. It has been generalized, yes. But it works wonders for you.
How Does It Work?
His Secret Obsession is a book or an audio program that you can choose from. You are given a choice to either get the readable version or the audio version. Rest assured that it is the same content, regardless of which version you choose to get. Available for as less as $49, the book is not a big investment at all. The book is divided into a few sections that have different symbols as below:
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The Glimpse Phrase
As the phrase suggests it is a secret signal that aims to allow your man to see a glimpse of you in a way that leaves him wanting more. When you use this signal, you will notice his eyes change and the fantasy starts developing in his mind about how amazing the future will be with you.
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The Fascination Signal
This signal lets you spark a deep attraction in a man that you just end up becoming an emotional addiction to him as well. This is one of the most powerful signals that you can use via any medium of communication.
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Silent Action Signals
This is the signal that every woman should know to shift a man’s hero instinct into high gear and instantly make you more alluring than any woman in his sight. These do not require any effort at all, as they are very subtle and silent, but will catch his eye.
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“IOU” Signal
If you know men, you know their selective hearing tendencies. This IOU signal teaches you how to harness that and make it better. It is extremely simple, but it is every man’s turn on. It fills him with a deep sense of trust in you that makes him see you as his only confidant.
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Damsel In Distress Signal
The “Damsel In Distress Signal” teaches you how to tap into a man’s natural protective instincts to get his undivided love and attention at will. If he is always dismissive, on the phone, or just doesn’t seem to care about you, then this is the perfect one to use. It makes you seem like the damsel in distress when it is him. He will be the one who will be falling for you to try to gain your attention.
These are just a few examples of the signals that are included in this book. The entire book and program aim to explain how to tap into a man’s hero instinct. These tips make you seem more powerful and in charge of your relationships.
James has listed a lot of tips that you can use to your advantage when convincing your man to listen to you and most importantly remain with you. It also includes them putting in more effort than they are doing and prioritizing you in their life.
What Can You Expect From This Program?
The program or book is perfect for women who seem to want to learn more about male Psychology. It is an excellent book for ladies who are dating or trying to fix a marriage. The book has some great insights into how men think and how to try to get them on the same page as you. However, it is not for someone who is not interested in a relationship or is a Lesbian. You need patience and the willingness to put in the effort to see some actual efforts.
Is The Program Real?
The “His Secret Obsession” eBook does seem to take a detailed approach for women to understand what their men need in a relationship. It is not 100% guaranteed to work, but it does have a few exciting insights that women can use to trigger some desirable characteristics in men to help make their already suffering relationship stronger. In saying that, there is nothing to lose if you do try it anyway.
Pros and Cons:
Pros
- There are a few different techniques that women can try.
- Easy explanations that make it easy to understand.
- Detailed explanations that help provide so much insight
- Approaches are all backed by Psychology.
- His Secret Obsession eBook is written by a relationship expert
- The book helps retaining women’s confidence
- It includes harmless and easy tricks.
Cons
- The book, however, does not guarantee any results
- Some techniques may seem a bit manipulative
Final thoughts
His Secret Obsession is a book that you should invest in, if you feel like your relationship is not working, or your partner is thinking of breaking up or is cheating on you. The insights are great if you are just thinking about dating and getting into the whirlwinds of the same.